How To Get A Womans Phone Number and Email in 3 minutes

By: David DeAngelo Let me start off by telling you something remarkable: I've personally stopped focusing on just receiving phone numbers. I've found that EMAIL addresses are far superior (I still get the phone number too, of course). Let me make clear. I perfected the art of receiving phone numbers a couple of years ago. If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I found out later, after running like a mad scientist on this that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESNT'T EQUAL THE AMMOUNT OF SUCCESS YOU HAVE WITH WOMEN. You see, women have many unusual reasons for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the consideration of having a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually attracted. But the universal response that I get from men, and in my personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person. When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often start acting stand offish or even poorer, just plain foul. It's almost like she's a different person than the one you met. I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more optimistic responses later on. It's almost as if women value it that you've taken the time to think about what you're going to say when you write an email to them, and they think of you more like someone they know. The other profit of email is that it can be written and answered anytime. If you call, you have to actually reach them. But an email can be answered anytime. And I've found that emails are answered FAR more frequently than voicemail messages. HERE'S THE HOW TO: After I've talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I'll frequently say something like "Well, it was nice meeting you. I'm going to get back to my friends." They generally don't know what to do, as they're used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice meeting you too..." Then, just as I'm turning to walk away, and we kind of separate, I turn back and say "HEY! Do you have email?" The "HEY!" is a bit shocking, and "Do you have email" is non-threatening. In fact, I'm officially asking her if she HAS email, not if she'll GIVE IT TO ME. If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say "Great, write it down for me" and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the 'yes' that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they've almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE'S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say "Write your number down there too." When you ask for email, it's very low hazard for a woman, so she'll think "Fine, I'll do that." Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can decide later to just not answer. The enchantment of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they're in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human performance. She's already psychologically said "OK, I'll give you my email address"... and she's in the middle of writing it down. When you say "And just write your number down there too" it's only NATURAL to just write it. In other words, it's a MUCH lesser step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this easy move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice. Here's a great add-on to make sure you're getting a real phone number and not a pager or voicemail: As she's writing down her phone number I say "Is this a number that you actually answer?" If she looks at me and hesitates, or says that it's her "voicemail or pager number," then I say "Look, carve your actual number down. It's going to be OK, I'll only call you nine times a day..." They laugh and usually give me their real number. Now, if she answers my first question and says "No, I don't have email" then I pick on them and say "Well, do you have electricity?" This is a GREAT chance to use humor. Then I say "Well, OK then. I like email better, but I'll take your regular phone number. It's so damn tough to reach people on the phone these days." Just realize that all you have to do is ask. Like I said, I've tried all kinds of things. And I've gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact string every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I've gotten to the point where I can frequently do this in a minute or two - no kidding! Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words and the steps, and practice it in your mind over and over until you know precisely what to say for each step and each response. Many guys have asked me "But what do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?" I've never had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she doesn't give it to you, then she also knew why you asked. Just believe that this is the case. If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, presumptuous, calm way, you'll get a lot of emails and phone numbers. Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it's small, classy, and women love it!

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How To Attract Women

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By: John Alexader

^{We've all had that special woman in our lives. You know... the one with the sweet qualities, the really nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more "expert" guys... but how can you get her to be attracted to you?}

<sup>While men are above all attracted to women based on their looks, a woman finds a man attractive because of his personality. An ideal man is an alpha male who's positive in himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what he wants out of life.

Ironically, what this means then is that the top way for a girl to like you is when she feels like she has EARNED you.

That's because to get a girl to like you, you should come from a mindset of high value. Never come from a position of neediness.

So the best attitudes to have towards any one exacting woman are:

1. Nonchalance.

2. Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By that I mean, if she likes you that's amazing, but if not, there are tons of other chicks out there that are equally as great as she is.)

The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge for her.

In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also get rid of neediness by building up your social network. Make friends with as many women as you can. (Women are easy to make friends with.)

Also date as many women as you can... don't confine yourself only to dating "that one special girl."

You see, the last thing you ever want to have going through your mind when you're around that special woman is, "God, I MUST have this girl! She's unique!" Having an abundance of women in your life will resolve that problem.

Also, whenever a woman sees that other chicks are attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction. Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof" phenomenon... and it's much more commanding in women than men.

Ever noticed how your female friends salivate over the guy at the corner of the bar who's got four babes at his table? That's social proof in action.

By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to feel something strong for her.

Here's the key though... you must always repeat to yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as amazing as that girl you really like.

If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her authority over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.

So, you're free to think that a woman's wonderful. Just remember that lots of other girls are marvelous too. That way you won't become needy.

So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for how to get a girl to be attracted to you.</sup>

^{John Alexander is the author of How to Become an Alpha Male , a seduction success system for men. Discover the excitement and pleasure of having gorgeous, horny women automatically drawn to you like a magnet.}

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How To Make A Great First Impression With Women

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By: Clark Cassidy

One of the largest and most commonly asked questions that men ever ask me is: How can I be more successful at approaching women? I’ve got some good news for you…the answer is a LOT simpler then you actually think!

The best way to increase your chances of having a successful “approach” when approaching women is to make an AMAZING first impression. First impressions usually happen within the first 30 seconds of meeting someone and can last as long as 2 minutes. After this window is over, your “first impression” chance is gone and it will take a real bit of work to change the persons opinion. That’s why it’s important to nail a great first impression each and every time

How does one do this though? When it comes to making a great first impression with women, there are 3 main things you need to focus on above all other…

• Be Sociable

Naturally, if you want to be successful at meeting women then you need to be sociable. You don’t want to shy away from the conversation. If you approach a woman and you’re hesitant to talk when it’s your turn or if you try to avoid talking then you will look like a very unsociable person who isn’t very fun.However if you approach women and you know how to keep a conversation going, and you know how to make the conversation fun then you will always be remembered for having that ability.

• Great Body Language

It’s extremely important to have solid body language when approaching women. Having bad body language will immediately tell the woman that you are nervous, anxious, or socially awkward. You want to have “open” body language, body language that says I’m comfortable with myself and my surroundings. You can do this by keeping your hands out of your pockets, hands at your sides, keeping your shoulders and head back, etc You want to have good back posture as well, which means you don't want to walk slouched over with your head looking torwards the ground!

• Use Comedy

You don’t want to seem like a boring person right off of the bat. You want to introduce comedy as soon as possible. The best possible way is to open to the woman in a slightly off-the-wall comment that is funny and will get a great response. If you can get them to laugh as soon as you meet them, then you can count yourself as practically golden because they will always remember you (because of the first impression) as a very funny guy.

Having a great first impression with women is key for nailing the attraction early on when building rapport. If you build a great impression that says “I’m a fun guy who is comfortable with himself” then you will make her feel a lot more comfortable around you. On the flipside, if you give the impression that you are in a bad mood or that you are uncomfortable, she will in turn feel uncomfortable about you.

This is just the tip of the ice berg to attracting women though, if you would like to read my brand new crash course into seduction then download my brand new guide now by CLICKING HERE!

Wishing you all the success with women,

Clark Cassidy

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Do you want to attract HOT women

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By: Joseph Matthews

Today I want to talk about a topic I find very fascinating.

It’s a topic I think relates to every man out there.

The topic of: WORTHINESS.

I was having a chat with a undergraduate recently who was suffering from a dilemma.

The dilemma was he wanted to have an incredibly HOT girlfriend.

We're talking supermodel worth here.

And you know what? He's not alone!

EVERY guy and his brother wants to have a drop-dead gorgeous girl to come home to.

But here's the trouble...

Most guys don't think they are capable of GETTING a girl like that.

So they settle.

They go for girls they KNOW they can get.

Girls that don't make them happy.

And why does this happen?

Because most men don't feel they DON’T DESERVE to have a really hot girlfriend - even if it’s what they want!

To many guys, extremely beautiful women seem like something "special."

It seems like the only way to attract them is to be unbelievably good looking yourself, or incredibly rich.

But here's the thing...

THAT'S 100% NOT TRUE.

I see guys with supermodel quality women all the time who are hideous, fat, stupid, broke, and what-not.

But do you know what separates these chumps from the typical guy?

There's no voice in their heads that tells them they CAN'T get these women!

They just GO FOR IT. Consequences be damned.

And you know what? Beautiful women are still women. What works on a typical girl will work on an above-typical girl.

You just have to be enthusiastic to do it.

You have to BELIEVE you can get her.

And here's the REALLY cool thing...

Because most guys don't think they can attract a hot chick, they don't even try!

So the really beautiful women hardly EVER get approached!

Therefore, if you know the Art Of Approaching, and you walk up to an incredibly beautiful girl, guess what?

IT'S GOING TO BE EASY!!!

She's going to look forward to chatting to you. She's going to be fascinated in what you have to say. She won't reject you.

Because she doesn't get approached by men who know what they're doing and the men who DO approach her are regularly LOSERS.

So as you can see, the deck is stacked in YOUR favor.

But you HAVE to know how to approach her the correct way. If you're serious about getting a super-hot girlfriend and living a Hugh Hefner-esque lifestyle, you plainly MUST get your own copy of the ART OF APPROACHING.

You can get your own copy right now by clicking here:

Click Here To Start Meeting Beautiful Women Right Now!

And when you've landed the H-O-T-T-E-S-T girl you've ever seen, be sure to send me an email to thank me! ;-)

Talk soon,

Joseph Matthews

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