How To Get A Womans Phone Number and Email in 3 minutes

By: David DeAngelo Let me start off by telling you something remarkable: I've personally stopped focusing on just receiving phone numbers. I've found that EMAIL addresses are far superior (I still get the phone number too, of course). Let me make clear. I perfected the art of receiving phone numbers a couple of years ago. If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I found out later, after running like a mad scientist on this that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESNT'T EQUAL THE AMMOUNT OF SUCCESS YOU HAVE WITH WOMEN. You see, women have many unusual reasons for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the consideration of having a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually attracted. But the universal response that I get from men, and in my personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person. When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often start acting stand offish or even poorer, just plain foul. It's almost like she's a different person than the one you met. I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more optimistic responses later on. It's almost as if women value it that you've taken the time to think about what you're going to say when you write an email to them, and they think of you more like someone they know. The other profit of email is that it can be written and answered anytime. If you call, you have to actually reach them. But an email can be answered anytime. And I've found that emails are answered FAR more frequently than voicemail messages. HERE'S THE HOW TO: After I've talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I'll frequently say something like "Well, it was nice meeting you. I'm going to get back to my friends." They generally don't know what to do, as they're used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice meeting you too..." Then, just as I'm turning to walk away, and we kind of separate, I turn back and say "HEY! Do you have email?" The "HEY!" is a bit shocking, and "Do you have email" is non-threatening. In fact, I'm officially asking her if she HAS email, not if she'll GIVE IT TO ME. If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say "Great, write it down for me" and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the 'yes' that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they've almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE'S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say "Write your number down there too." When you ask for email, it's very low hazard for a woman, so she'll think "Fine, I'll do that." Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can decide later to just not answer. The enchantment of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they're in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human performance. She's already psychologically said "OK, I'll give you my email address"... and she's in the middle of writing it down. When you say "And just write your number down there too" it's only NATURAL to just write it. In other words, it's a MUCH lesser step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this easy move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice. Here's a great add-on to make sure you're getting a real phone number and not a pager or voicemail: As she's writing down her phone number I say "Is this a number that you actually answer?" If she looks at me and hesitates, or says that it's her "voicemail or pager number," then I say "Look, carve your actual number down. It's going to be OK, I'll only call you nine times a day..." They laugh and usually give me their real number. Now, if she answers my first question and says "No, I don't have email" then I pick on them and say "Well, do you have electricity?" This is a GREAT chance to use humor. Then I say "Well, OK then. I like email better, but I'll take your regular phone number. It's so damn tough to reach people on the phone these days." Just realize that all you have to do is ask. Like I said, I've tried all kinds of things. And I've gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact string every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I've gotten to the point where I can frequently do this in a minute or two - no kidding! Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words and the steps, and practice it in your mind over and over until you know precisely what to say for each step and each response. Many guys have asked me "But what do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?" I've never had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she doesn't give it to you, then she also knew why you asked. Just believe that this is the case. If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, presumptuous, calm way, you'll get a lot of emails and phone numbers. Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it's small, classy, and women love it!