What Single Women Hate!

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By: James

The reason why we’re starting with this topic is that at least 95% of men strike out with women in the first 3 minutes of talking to her.

They don’t even realize it, but they have made mistake after mistake and that leads to a total lack of attraction from the women they have met.

Do NOT do these things.

Many of them will sound familiar to you, but it is time that you learned not to do them.

Mistake #1: Do NOT buy a girl drinks unless you already have a rapport with her!

Why not? Well, there are a number of reasons. Most nice girls find it embarrassing when someone they have not even talked to walks up to them and offers to pay for a drink. They are also cautious and may even think things like, “Are there drugs in there?” “Why are they doing this?” “What do they want?”

And those girls that do say, “Yes, please,” without even asking, “Are you sure?” usually will never become attracted to you, because you have just positioned yourself as another “free drinks guy.”

So when do you buy a girl drinks? After all, lots of girls say that it is a nice and gentlemanly thing to do, not to mention it can be attractive if done right.

If you are going to buy a girl drinks, do it after you have developed a rapport with her first. Offer it to her in a way that seems like you were going to the bar anyway to get a drink and just wanted to see if she wants one, too, (i.e., to prolong the enjoyable conversation).

If possible, get her to come to the bar with you. If she does this, you can take this as an indicator of interest (IOI) and, by leading her there, you are actively demonstrating leadership skills – something she will be subconsciously attracted to.

So, to summarize, when you buy a girl drinks straightaway, you are instantly telling a girl that you feel you need to spend money in order to buy her attention. That instantly reduces your chances of her becoming attracted to you.

What you need to do is learn more creative ways of starting conversations. You’ll learn some here in this 6-Part MiniCourse, and a lot more in my Premium and Mastery courses.

Mistake #2: Don’t give too many compliments too soon.

Many guys, when they meet a hot girl, make the mistake of giving them too many compliments too soon.

Hot girls get compliments all the time. And you know what? When you give them too many compliments, they think, “Thanks, that’s great,” they get a quick self-esteem boost, and they lose interest in you.

Even girls that don’t receive compliments all the time feel awkward when you give them more than one compliment, and they don’t know how to naturally accept them. It can also make them feel self-conscious, leading them to think, “What else is he checking out about me?”

All in all, giving too many compliments lets them know straightaway that you see them as a prize worth pursuing. By doing this too obviously, too early, you are actively demonstrating that you are not a challenge, and this will make her less attracted to you.

If you are going to give a girl a compliment, make it mean something. Make it be the only one for the night. And if she is super hot, she is used to getting compliments about her looks. Why not be different? Comment about something subtle that you notice about her, like how you enjoyed talking to her and how she seems really fun. Try to look beyond her looks, and you’ll be the one who is qualifying her, not the other way around.

Mistake #3: Being too predictable in your conversation.

Some predictability in conversation is fine, as eventually you will have to find out her name, what she does, what her likes and dislikes are, and so forth.

But...

You don’t want THE ENTIRE conversation to be too predictable. And you DO want to tell stories in your conversations whenever you can.

What is ”too predictable”?

Well, attractive women get approach A LOT in their lives, whether it be in a bar or just meeting through friends. And what they are very used to is a conversation that goes something like this:

“Hi, how are you? I’m John, what’s your name? … Cool, pleased to meet you. So, what do you do for a living? … Oh really? That’s interesting, you must find that very fulfilling (or whatever…)… What do I do? I’m an accountant (or whatever)….”

Sound familiar?

The worst part about these types of conversations is that you tend to run out of things to say pretty quickly. Not to mention that you have actively demonstrated that you are very, very similar to every other guy that has approached them. You’re not demonstrating much uniqueness here and you are not setting things up for a fun conversation.

What I can tell you is that you can actively demonstrate that you are not exactly the same as every other guy by simply not opening up your conversation with, “Hi, how are you?”

Start your conversation with something like the classic opener, “Hey, my friends and I were just talking, and we want a female opinion on something…” and away you go, STRAIGHT into conversation, BEFORE you ask for personal details such as her name, what she does, and so forth.

Women LOVE to give their opinions, and this gets a real conversation going where they can get passionate about the topic. Plus, this gives you a legitimate (in their eyes) reason to approach them.

What could you ask for a female opinion on?

• “Do black shirts look great in clubs? My friend thinks they are a little plain. I think they stand out more because not that many people actually wear them outside of business – and that’s with a tie!”
• “Is buying a dog for a girl a good present? My friend has been going out with his girlfriend for 6 months, and he’s thinking of buying her a dog.”
• “Should a first date always be short, like less than 30 minutes? Some of us think that they should be coffee or something with an easy ‘out’ if it doesn’t go well, but others think it should be something more fun, like going to a theme park, but that can take a few hours. What do you think?”

As you can see, there are a lot of different opinion openers that you can use and think of. I just thought those up off the top of my head.

By doing this, you are actively demonstrating you’re not a “Hi, how are you?”-kind-of-guy. You are actively demonstrating that you are so comfortable with yourself and with people that you can ask go up to someone and ask a question and feel you have the right to.

Remember, YOU need to be the one to guide the conversation.

You can always change the conversation in an instant by casually saying, “Anyway,” and following up with a question, like how she knows so much about fashion or pets or whatever.

I prefer not to ask her name, because if she volunteers her name and asks for your name, that is an indicator of interest (IOI). In other words, it gives you a little indication she likes you. Get enough IOIs, and you can be confident that you are on the right track.

When you do ask a follow-up question, DON’T follow up her response with a whole bunch more questions.

Too many questions = Boring!

What you need to do is follow up her answer with a story that relates to what she just told you.

For example:

You: “Anyway, so what kind of music do you like?”

Her: “Hmmm… I like boy bands like Westlife, also a bit of hip hop. How about you?”

You: “Really? Boy bands aren’t my favorite. I know all the girls love them – in fact, my little sister used to be really into New Kids on the Block when I was younger. Her and her friends used to make up their own dance moves to them. I guess that’s what put me off them, all that ‘step by step’ and all that. But, personally, I enjoy classic 80’s and 90’s music. They remind me of some pretty good times when I was growing up, not to mention they go great with plenty of beer, ha-ha.”

What happens when you tell a story is that she often will follow up with her own story, and, if she doesn’t, you can tell another to fill a pause in conversation, such as…

You: “Oh! That reminds me, talking about beer, I once went to this bar where there were over 180 different beers on tap; it was like a world record. So are you a beer drinker or a wino?”

Now that you’ve seen a good way to handle a conversation, let me show you how most guys mess it up.

Most Guys: “What kind of music do you like?”

Her: “Hmmm… I like boy bands like Westlife, also a bit of hip hop. How about you?”

Most Guys: “Cool, those bands are good. I also like 80s and 90s music, mostly. So, what else do you do for fun?”

Talk about boring! Only a really patient girl will stay in this “question and answer” kind of conversation much longer.

Most Guys aren’t fun and interesting to talk to. Most Guys aren’t interesting and unique.

There is a LOT more to learn about conversation skills, but if you can try to include some storytelling in your conversations, you will be twice as interesting to talk to.

If you want to learn more from me about how to talk to women, get my How to be irresistible to Women Premium series

OK, now just to recap what we’ve covered so far: three things that single women HATE and not to do are:

#1. Do NOT buy a girl drinks unless you already have a rapport with her!

#2. Do NOT give too many compliments too soon.

#3. Do NOT be too predictable in your conversation.

There are other things that single women HATE, these include lack of style, seeking her approval too much, giving up all your power to her, specific body language faults, and a whole lot more, including the thing that single women HATE THE MOST.

Find out all of the above, and a whole lot more in my How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM course. And if you want the ULTIMATE how to seduce women package, get my How to Be Irresistible to Women MASTERY Series, which includes information presented by 12 of the world’s leading seduction and dating experts.

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How To Get A Womans Phone Number and Email in 3 minutes

By: David DeAngelo Let me start off by telling you something remarkable: I've personally stopped focusing on just receiving phone numbers. I've found that EMAIL addresses are far superior (I still get the phone number too, of course). Let me make clear. I perfected the art of receiving phone numbers a couple of years ago. If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I found out later, after running like a mad scientist on this that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESNT'T EQUAL THE AMMOUNT OF SUCCESS YOU HAVE WITH WOMEN. You see, women have many unusual reasons for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the consideration of having a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually attracted. But the universal response that I get from men, and in my personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person. When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often start acting stand offish or even poorer, just plain foul. It's almost like she's a different person than the one you met. I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more optimistic responses later on. It's almost as if women value it that you've taken the time to think about what you're going to say when you write an email to them, and they think of you more like someone they know. The other profit of email is that it can be written and answered anytime. If you call, you have to actually reach them. But an email can be answered anytime. And I've found that emails are answered FAR more frequently than voicemail messages. HERE'S THE HOW TO: After I've talked to a woman for about 3 or 4 minutes, I'll frequently say something like "Well, it was nice meeting you. I'm going to get back to my friends." They generally don't know what to do, as they're used to guys clinging to them. Most of the time, they say "It was nice meeting you too..." Then, just as I'm turning to walk away, and we kind of separate, I turn back and say "HEY! Do you have email?" The "HEY!" is a bit shocking, and "Do you have email" is non-threatening. In fact, I'm officially asking her if she HAS email, not if she'll GIVE IT TO ME. If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say "Great, write it down for me" and I have her write it down. (This is great, as I just treat the 'yes' that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well. And they've almost ALL gone along with it so far) Then AS SHE'S IN THE MIDDLE OF WRITING, I say "Write your number down there too." When you ask for email, it's very low hazard for a woman, so she'll think "Fine, I'll do that." Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can decide later to just not answer. The enchantment of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they're in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human performance. She's already psychologically said "OK, I'll give you my email address"... and she's in the middle of writing it down. When you say "And just write your number down there too" it's only NATURAL to just write it. In other words, it's a MUCH lesser step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this easy move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice. Here's a great add-on to make sure you're getting a real phone number and not a pager or voicemail: As she's writing down her phone number I say "Is this a number that you actually answer?" If she looks at me and hesitates, or says that it's her "voicemail or pager number," then I say "Look, carve your actual number down. It's going to be OK, I'll only call you nine times a day..." They laugh and usually give me their real number. Now, if she answers my first question and says "No, I don't have email" then I pick on them and say "Well, do you have electricity?" This is a GREAT chance to use humor. Then I say "Well, OK then. I like email better, but I'll take your regular phone number. It's so damn tough to reach people on the phone these days." Just realize that all you have to do is ask. Like I said, I've tried all kinds of things. And I've gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact string every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I've gotten to the point where I can frequently do this in a minute or two - no kidding! Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words and the steps, and practice it in your mind over and over until you know precisely what to say for each step and each response. Many guys have asked me "But what do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?" I've never had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she doesn't give it to you, then she also knew why you asked. Just believe that this is the case. If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, presumptuous, calm way, you'll get a lot of emails and phone numbers. Note: Carry a pen on you at all times. I prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it's small, classy, and women love it!

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How To Attract Women

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By: John Alexader

^{We've all had that special woman in our lives. You know... the one with the sweet qualities, the really nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more "expert" guys... but how can you get her to be attracted to you?}

<sup>While men are above all attracted to women based on their looks, a woman finds a man attractive because of his personality. An ideal man is an alpha male who's positive in himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what he wants out of life.

Ironically, what this means then is that the top way for a girl to like you is when she feels like she has EARNED you.

That's because to get a girl to like you, you should come from a mindset of high value. Never come from a position of neediness.

So the best attitudes to have towards any one exacting woman are:

1. Nonchalance.

2. Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By that I mean, if she likes you that's amazing, but if not, there are tons of other chicks out there that are equally as great as she is.)

The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge for her.

In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also get rid of neediness by building up your social network. Make friends with as many women as you can. (Women are easy to make friends with.)

Also date as many women as you can... don't confine yourself only to dating "that one special girl."

You see, the last thing you ever want to have going through your mind when you're around that special woman is, "God, I MUST have this girl! She's unique!" Having an abundance of women in your life will resolve that problem.

Also, whenever a woman sees that other chicks are attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction. Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof" phenomenon... and it's much more commanding in women than men.

Ever noticed how your female friends salivate over the guy at the corner of the bar who's got four babes at his table? That's social proof in action.

By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to feel something strong for her.

Here's the key though... you must always repeat to yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as amazing as that girl you really like.

If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her authority over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.

So, you're free to think that a woman's wonderful. Just remember that lots of other girls are marvelous too. That way you won't become needy.

So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for how to get a girl to be attracted to you.</sup>

^{John Alexander is the author of How to Become an Alpha Male , a seduction success system for men. Discover the excitement and pleasure of having gorgeous, horny women automatically drawn to you like a magnet.}

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How To Make A Great First Impression With Women

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By: Clark Cassidy

One of the largest and most commonly asked questions that men ever ask me is: How can I be more successful at approaching women? I’ve got some good news for you…the answer is a LOT simpler then you actually think!

The best way to increase your chances of having a successful “approach” when approaching women is to make an AMAZING first impression. First impressions usually happen within the first 30 seconds of meeting someone and can last as long as 2 minutes. After this window is over, your “first impression” chance is gone and it will take a real bit of work to change the persons opinion. That’s why it’s important to nail a great first impression each and every time

How does one do this though? When it comes to making a great first impression with women, there are 3 main things you need to focus on above all other…

• Be Sociable

Naturally, if you want to be successful at meeting women then you need to be sociable. You don’t want to shy away from the conversation. If you approach a woman and you’re hesitant to talk when it’s your turn or if you try to avoid talking then you will look like a very unsociable person who isn’t very fun.However if you approach women and you know how to keep a conversation going, and you know how to make the conversation fun then you will always be remembered for having that ability.

• Great Body Language

It’s extremely important to have solid body language when approaching women. Having bad body language will immediately tell the woman that you are nervous, anxious, or socially awkward. You want to have “open” body language, body language that says I’m comfortable with myself and my surroundings. You can do this by keeping your hands out of your pockets, hands at your sides, keeping your shoulders and head back, etc You want to have good back posture as well, which means you don't want to walk slouched over with your head looking torwards the ground!

• Use Comedy

You don’t want to seem like a boring person right off of the bat. You want to introduce comedy as soon as possible. The best possible way is to open to the woman in a slightly off-the-wall comment that is funny and will get a great response. If you can get them to laugh as soon as you meet them, then you can count yourself as practically golden because they will always remember you (because of the first impression) as a very funny guy.

Having a great first impression with women is key for nailing the attraction early on when building rapport. If you build a great impression that says “I’m a fun guy who is comfortable with himself” then you will make her feel a lot more comfortable around you. On the flipside, if you give the impression that you are in a bad mood or that you are uncomfortable, she will in turn feel uncomfortable about you.

This is just the tip of the ice berg to attracting women though, if you would like to read my brand new crash course into seduction then download my brand new guide now by CLICKING HERE!

Wishing you all the success with women,

Clark Cassidy

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Do you want to attract HOT women

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By: Joseph Matthews

Today I want to talk about a topic I find very fascinating.

It’s a topic I think relates to every man out there.

The topic of: WORTHINESS.

I was having a chat with a undergraduate recently who was suffering from a dilemma.

The dilemma was he wanted to have an incredibly HOT girlfriend.

We're talking supermodel worth here.

And you know what? He's not alone!

EVERY guy and his brother wants to have a drop-dead gorgeous girl to come home to.

But here's the trouble...

Most guys don't think they are capable of GETTING a girl like that.

So they settle.

They go for girls they KNOW they can get.

Girls that don't make them happy.

And why does this happen?

Because most men don't feel they DON’T DESERVE to have a really hot girlfriend - even if it’s what they want!

To many guys, extremely beautiful women seem like something "special."

It seems like the only way to attract them is to be unbelievably good looking yourself, or incredibly rich.

But here's the thing...

THAT'S 100% NOT TRUE.

I see guys with supermodel quality women all the time who are hideous, fat, stupid, broke, and what-not.

But do you know what separates these chumps from the typical guy?

There's no voice in their heads that tells them they CAN'T get these women!

They just GO FOR IT. Consequences be damned.

And you know what? Beautiful women are still women. What works on a typical girl will work on an above-typical girl.

You just have to be enthusiastic to do it.

You have to BELIEVE you can get her.

And here's the REALLY cool thing...

Because most guys don't think they can attract a hot chick, they don't even try!

So the really beautiful women hardly EVER get approached!

Therefore, if you know the Art Of Approaching, and you walk up to an incredibly beautiful girl, guess what?

IT'S GOING TO BE EASY!!!

She's going to look forward to chatting to you. She's going to be fascinated in what you have to say. She won't reject you.

Because she doesn't get approached by men who know what they're doing and the men who DO approach her are regularly LOSERS.

So as you can see, the deck is stacked in YOUR favor.

But you HAVE to know how to approach her the correct way. If you're serious about getting a super-hot girlfriend and living a Hugh Hefner-esque lifestyle, you plainly MUST get your own copy of the ART OF APPROACHING.

You can get your own copy right now by clicking here:

Click Here To Start Meeting Beautiful Women Right Now!

And when you've landed the H-O-T-T-E-S-T girl you've ever seen, be sure to send me an email to thank me! ;-)

Talk soon,

Joseph Matthews

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